We're only human (I think)
People are weird. It's something I've known for years, but every once in a while it smacks me upside the head anew. I know I'm weird, I see it in people I work with, I see it in people I meet casually or pass in the street. Sometimes a person's oddities are amusing or helpful. And sometimes they annoy the fuck out of me.
My honey is a good example. He and I don't agree on everything, which is the way of any relationship. And generally it doesn't bother me. But lately everything has been bothering me (I've turned into an all-round grouch lately, please don't take it personally). Including W's stubbornness, which is approximately equal to my own. So I had a bit of a blow-up, where I was close to going off the deep end and doing something stupidly drastic, as is my wont. Even though I realized I was being unreasonable. I got to thinking it through later, and now I take the approach that he's not going to change his opinion, so why bother banging my head against a brick wall. My head will just hurt and I won't get anywhere anyways.
Serenity now!
My honey is a good example. He and I don't agree on everything, which is the way of any relationship. And generally it doesn't bother me. But lately everything has been bothering me (I've turned into an all-round grouch lately, please don't take it personally). Including W's stubbornness, which is approximately equal to my own. So I had a bit of a blow-up, where I was close to going off the deep end and doing something stupidly drastic, as is my wont. Even though I realized I was being unreasonable. I got to thinking it through later, and now I take the approach that he's not going to change his opinion, so why bother banging my head against a brick wall. My head will just hurt and I won't get anywhere anyways.
Serenity now!
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